This has been a fabulous and insane couple of days. I am so full of family and socializing! It was really good to have dinner tonight just with the boy ( Read more... )

whoa, I just ordered cakes! From the best bakery ever.

yikes, things are happening soon. but that is super exciting, also! I need to email the guy who's making our rings and make sure that's actually happening...

for those of you keeping up with my musings on the upcoming not-wedding, there is assorted cuteness hereAlso, while you're at it, please do at least scroll back to the previous post about the devastating fire in Philly recently (in and around the Simple Way community), and consider making a donation. I want to post more about how awesome those ( Read more... )

( wait, what's going on? )

we're (quasi) official: http://www.riparks.com/pulaski.htm

I've been feeling particularly anti-establishment today. So I thought I'd take a minute to vomit out some thoughts on the marriage thing, and what the hell I think I'm going to be doing on August 11.

I have no interest in the concept of Marriage as an institution. My good feminist predecessors have been over this; it's all about ownership. ( Read more... )

a lot of you have heard by now that refuz and I are getting... somethinged (commitment ceremonied, illegal pirate weddinged?) this summer. I pretty much hate the word "married," and sadly used it the other night because I didn't have another. so to any of you who got that version, sorry ( Read more... )